Money Matters: How to Teach Your Children About Financial Responsibility

August 23, 2024

As a parent, you strive to teach your children many skills—everything from learning the alphabet and tying their shoes when they’re young, to how to drive a car and navigate life when they’re older. You’re a trusted source of knowledge, support, and guidance for them as they grow and learn throughout their years.


Teaching your children about financial responsibility is as important a skill as any you’ll teach them. As of 2023, only half the states in America have a required K-12 financial education curriculum, so it’s often up to parents to teach their children how to manage money.


By instilling financial principles at an early age, you can help your children develop lasting financial habits that will serve them well into adulthood. Learning about money can help your children make informed decisions about their finances as they grow up, and help them lead a more financially fulfilling life. 


Why Is Learning About Money Important? 


Financial literacy is the foundation of a secure financial future. Understanding how to budget, save, invest, build credit, and maintain financial wellness are essential life skills in today’s world. 


Financial mistakes can have long-lasting consequences, and being financially literate can help you be smarter with your money, avoid financial pitfalls, and improve your financial security and stability. 


Parents are the first and most influential teachers of financial literacy. As you well know, children are excellent observers; it feels like they see and hear everything, even from a very young age. 

Your attitude and behavior toward money can play a significant role in shaping your children’s understanding of how to manage money and their financial habits. 


Take an active role in guiding your children through the complexities of personal finance. The financial lessons your children learn from you can help set the stage for their financial future and help them establish a strong financial foundation they can build on as they grow.


Financial Lessons at Every Age


You can teach your children about money at every stage of life. 


Young Children


Remember when you first learned about money and coins as a child? It’s a wonderful and simple way to introduce your little ones to the concept of money. Start by teaching them to identify different bills and coins, and explain how money is used to purchase the things we need. You can even create a pretend store where they can practice paying for items and receiving change. This not only helps them understand the value of money but also reinforces their counting skills with coins and bills.


As your children grow a little older, give them a piggy bank so you can begin to teach them about saving. You can give them an allowance for chores around the house and help them set small savings goals (like buying a toy). You can explain to them the difference between needs and wants, which can be a starting point for teaching them about budgeting and how to make smart spending decisions. 


You can also introduce the “save, spend, share” concept to teach your children the basics of money management while also fostering a sense of philanthropy and charitable giving. Encourage them to divide the money they receive into these three categories, guiding them on how much to allocate to each. This approach not only reinforces smart financial habits but also instills the value of giving back.


  • Save: This money can be set aside for a bigger purchase they’re aiming for or saved for something they might want in the future. 
  • Spend: They can use this money to buy something they want right now, like a small toy or treat.
  • Share: This portion can be given to those in need or donated to support a cause or organization they care about.


Teenagers


In their teen years, your children can continue to learn about budgeting and the importance of saving. Whether it’s earning money through a bigger allowance for helping around the house or a part-time job, your children can learn the value of work and making smart money decisions. 


Help your teens open a Roth or a savings account and explain how compounding works as a reward for saving. Encourage them to continue to save, whether it’s for a new phone they want, their own car, or spending money to go out with friends.


Teens can learn how to track their income and spending by monitoring their bank account, or through various budgeting apps available. Learning how to manage their budget can not only help them reach their savings goals but also prepare them for future adult financial responsibilities.


College-Age and Beyond


In your children’s college years, budgeting is crucial for effectively managing their living expenses, tuition costs, and other expenses on their own. Guide them in creating a realistic budget that aligns their income and savings with their expenses, helping them build the skills needed to achieve financial independence


Be sure to educate your nearly adult children on the importance of credit and debt management. Their first credit card, student loans, or first apartment are valuable opportunities to teach them about building and maintaining credit and managing debt responsibly. Ensure they understand the implications of their loans, including interest rates and repayment options, and how these factors can affect both their finances and their credit score in the long run.


As they approach adulthood, you can also teach your children about long-term financial planning, such as investing, saving for retirement, and planning for the future. Teach them that having a plan in place for the long term can help them enhance their financial wellness and quality of life well into their golden years.


How Five Pine Wealth Management Can Help


Teaching your children about financial responsibility can help them build confidence in money matters as they grow. The knowledge you share can empower them to make well-informed decisions to build financial independence and success. The lifelong skills you instill in your children can carry them through adulthood and toward a more secure and prosperous future.


Start early, and make financial literacy a priority in your household. 


As you guide your children on their financial journey, partnering with a professional can provide invaluable support and expertise. A financial advisor can help you tailor financial lessons to your children’s unique needs and future goals, offering personalized advice on everything from savings plans to investment strategies. 


At Five Pine Wealth Management, we’ll work closely with you to develop a comprehensive family financial plan that aligns with your long-term objectives. As fiduciary financial advisors, we are committed to acting in your best interest, helping you and your family grow your wealth and build financial success. We welcome you to find out how we can help: email us or give us a call at 877.333.1015 to schedule a meeting.


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What's Inside Your 457? (And Why It Matters More Than You Think)

April 30, 2026
Key Takeaways Your 457 should work alongside your pension to support your overall retirement income plan. Many 457 plans are set on autopilot, but your investments shouldn’t stay that way as you near retirement. Understanding what you're invested in helps you make better decisions when markets move. Turning 50 is your signal to review your 457 more closely so you can check your contributions, risk level, and how it fits with your pension before retirement gets too close. Like many first responders in Washington and Idaho, you probably have a pretty solid grasp of your "Plan A." Between the WA LEOFF Plan 2 or ID PERSI, you’ve spent your career earning a guaranteed monthly pension. It’s the foundation of your retirement — the steady paycheck that arrives regardless of what the stock market does. But then there’s that "other" account. The one you’ve been tucking money into every pay period through deferred compensation. In Washington, it’s usually the Washington State Deferred Compensation Program (WSDCP); in Idaho, it’s often the State of Idaho 457(b) Plan. When we sit down with firefighters and police officers who are within 10 years of their "end of watch" date, they usually know two things about this account: how much is in it and that they’re glad they started it. But when we ask, 'What is that money actually doing?' — that question usually gets a pause. If you’re 50 or older, it’s time to move past the "set it and forget it" mentality. Let’s take a look at how your 457 works and how to make sure it’s working for you. 457 Plan Investment Options  Unlike your pension, which is managed by the state, your 457 is a “defined contribution” plan. That means the outcome depends entirely on how much you put in and how those funds are invested. A 457 plan is just a container. Think of it like a toolbox. What matters is what’s inside the box. Your account isn’t sitting in cash (at least it shouldn’t be). It’s invested in a mix of underlying funds, usually including: Stock funds (equities): These are your growth engines. They tend to go up over time, but they can be volatile. These could be U.S. stock funds or international funds. Bond funds (fixed income): These provide stability and income, but with historically reduced long-term returns. Stable value or cash equivalents: Lower risk, but also lower growth. Most public service 457 plans in the Northwest offer a menu of these options. Some people choose to build their own mix, while others choose a single “all-in-one” fund and let it do the work. This brings us to the most common choice we see… What is a Target-Date Fund? A Target-Date Fund (TDF) is designed to be a one-stop shop. The “date” in the name is the year the fund assumes you will retire. If you plan to hang up the uniform in 2030, you’d likely be in a 2030 fund. A TDF automatically shifts its risk level as you get closer to that date. This is called the glide path . When you are 20 years away from retirement, the fund is aggressive. It buys mostly stocks because you have time to recover from market crashes. As you get closer to the target year, the fund manager automatically “glides” the investments away from risky stocks and into “safer” bonds and cash. TDFs are built for the “average” American worker who relies solely on Social Security and a 401(k), but you aren’t the average worker. You have a LEOFF or PERSI pension. Because your pension acts like a “super bond” (stable, guaranteed income), being too conservative in your 457 might hinder your growth. Conversely, if you’re planning to retire at 53 (common for LEOFF 2) but your fund is target age 65, you might be taking way more risk than you realize. It’s also important to note that two funds with the same year, for example, 2035, can have very different levels of risk depending on the provider. One may still hold 60% in stocks near retirement, while another might be closer to 40%. How Risk Changes as Retirement Approaches In your 20s, 30s, and even early 40s, “risk” is your friend. Risk is what grows a $50,000 account into a $500,000 account. However, as you approach the age of 50, the definition of risk changes. That’s because you’re entering what we call the “retirement red zone,” roughly five years before and five years after your retirement date. This is when: Your portfolio is at its largest You have less time to recover from downturns You may soon rely on the money for income We look at two specific types of risk for our clients: Sequence of Returns Risk: The risk that a market crash occurs just as you start taking withdrawals. If the market drops 20% the year you retire, and you start pulling money out to travel or pay off the mortgage, your account may never recover. Inflation Risk: If you get scared and move everything into the “Fixed Account” or “Stable Value Fund,” you might not lose money, but you’ll lose purchasing power. If your account earns 2% but the cost of living goes up by 4%, you’re technically getting poorer every year. Finding the “Goldilocks” zone — not too hot, not too cold — is the primary job of a pre-retiree. The Age 50 Checklist Once you’re in your 50s, it’s time to stop running on autopilot and take a closer look at your 457. Check Your “Catch-Up” Options In 2026, the standard 457 contribution limit is $24,500; however, once you’re 50, you can add an extra $8,000 in “Age 50 Catch Up” contributions. Even better, if you're within three years of your normal retirement age and haven’t maxed out your contributions in previous years, you may be able to contribute up to double the normal limit ($49,000). This is a massive boost for your savings. Diversify Your Tax Buckets Most first responders have their money in a Traditional 457, meaning you get a tax break now but pay taxes when you take the money out. Both Washington and Idaho offer Roth 457 options. With a Roth, you pay the tax today, but the money grows and comes out tax-free. For high-earners who expect their pension to keep them in a higher tax bracket during retirement, having a “tax-free” bucket of money can be helpful. Coordinate With Your Pension If your LEOFF or PERSI pension covers 70% of your needed income, your 457 can afford to be a bit more aggressive in fighting inflation. If you plan to use your 457 to bridge the gap until you collect Social Security, that money needs to be protected differently. Let’s Take a Look Together At Five Pine Wealth Management, we work with first responders in Washington and Idaho who are approaching retirement and want clarity around their financial picture. We understand how LEOFF Plan 2 and PERSI fit into the bigger picture, and how your 457 can support the retirement you’ve worked hard to build. If you’d like help understanding what you’re invested in, we’d be happy to take a look with you. You can email or call us at 877.333.1015 to schedule. We’d welcome the conversation. You’ve spent your career looking out for the community; let us help you look out for your future. Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) Q: Is a Target-Date Fund enough for my 457 plan? A: For many people, it is, but as you get closer to retirement, it’s important to review whether the fund’s risk level matches your timeline and overall financial picture. Q: Is there a penalty for taking money out before age 59½? A: No. Unlike a 401(k), the 457 plan has no 10% early withdrawal penalty if you leave your employer, making it an ideal tool for first responders retiring in their early 50s. Q: Should I choose a Target-Date Fund or build my own portfolio in a 457? A: Target-date funds offer simplicity, but building your own portfolio allows for more customization. If you have a pension that already provides a stable income, building your own could be a good option.

He Had $1.1 Million and Almost Went Back to Work. Here's What Changed

April 22, 2026
Key Takeaways A portfolio designed for accumulation may carry too much risk, or the wrong kind of risk, once you stop contributing. When two spouses are at different financial life stages, their investment strategies should reflect that difference. A Roth conversion strategy during the years before required minimum distributions begin can meaningfully reduce your long-term tax burden. Rob spent 30 years building a picture-perfect financial foundation for his retirement. He maxed out his 401(k) and stayed disciplined through market downturns. By the time he retired from a long career in plant management and HR, he had a nest egg most people only dream about. But then retirement arrived, and with it came a new kind of anxiety. Rob spent all those years learning how to build wealth, but never how to draw it down. The accumulation phase was clear, but the decumulation phase is far more complex and far more personal. Rob had hired a financial advisor when he retired, hoping for guidance through that transition. Instead, he got portfolio management and investment decisions without the broader planning context he needed. That relationship didn’t last a year. And that’s when he and his wife Christie, came to Five Pine. The Numbers Behind the Plan: When They Started Today Rob’s age 57 63 Investable assets $1.1 million $2.5 million Net worth — $3.5 million Primary challenge No decumulation plan, Comprehensive plan in place heavy pre-tax exposure Key strategies Portfolio redesign, Ongoing tax planning, Roth conversion planning rebalancing When Saving Well Isn't Enough When we first met Rob and Christie, a few things stood out right away. Rob was recently retired with $1.1 million in investable assets (the vast majority of it in pre-tax retirement accounts). Christie, about ten years younger than Rob, was still working and earning a high income as a part-owner of a small business. They were a dual-financial-life household: one person winding down, one still in full accumulation mode. Rob’s most pressing concern was straightforward to state but harder to solve: how much could he spend without putting their retirement at risk? He wanted to travel, renovate the house, and buy a new vehicle without second-guessing himself. But after those decades of saving, spending felt foreign, even a little reckless. He had seriously considered going back to work, not because he needed to, but because he felt he couldn’t trust the numbers. Underneath that, a long-term tax problem was simmering. With most of their savings in pre-tax accounts, Rob and Christie were looking at significant required minimum distributions (RMDs) starting at age 73. And Christie, likely to outlive Rob by a meaningful margin, would eventually face those distributions as a single filer at higher tax rates. They weren’t in trouble, but without a plan, they were heading toward unnecessary complexity and tax liability. A Plan Built for Retirement, Not for Accumulation We started with the full financial picture. Before we touched the portfolio, we built a comprehensive financial plan and stress-tested it against different market scenarios, spending levels, and timelines. Once Rob saw the projections running out over a 30-year horizon, his hesitation about retirement began to lift. The plan gave him the number he needed and, more importantly, the confidence to trust it. From there, we redesigned the portfolio to match Rob’s phase of life. He had come from a Dave Ramsey background and had always preferred an all-equity approach: aggressive, growth-focused, and straightforward. That served him well during the accumulation years, when he contributed every month and had decades to recover from downturns. But in retirement and drawing from the portfolio regularly, it introduced more risk than his situation warranted. We restructured his holdings to roughly 60% equities, 25% fixed income, and 15% in alternative investments, specifically private credit funds and private real estate. The alternatives were a meaningful addition. They could potentially carry lower price fluctuation than publicly-traded assets and have the ability to generate distributions, which may potentially help support spending needs without forcing untimely equity sales. Christie's accounts, meanwhile, stayed aggressive. She's still contributing through her employer plan, still has years of earning ahead of her, and has time to weather market swings. Finally, we put a Roth conversion strategy in place for the years ahead. Timed to begin when Christie retires, the strategy takes advantage of a window when their income will likely be lower, but before RMDs kick in and before Christie potentially files as a single filer at higher tax rates. Converting pre-tax dollars gradually reduces the accounts that will eventually be subject to mandatory distributions, potentially saving hundreds of thousands of dollars in taxes over time. From Hesitation to Confidence Rob came to us considering whether he needed to keep working. He left with a plan that showed him that he didn't. Once the plan was in place, Rob and Christie started making the most of their years together, international sailing trips, travel they had put off, and experiences they had earned. A health scare along the way reinforced what the plan had already made clear: the goal is to fund a life worth living while you're healthy enough to live it. On the investment side, market volatility became an opportunity rather than a threat. When markets dropped sharply during a period of economic uncertainty, we rebalanced, selling fixed income to buy equities at a discount. As markets recovered, those moves contributed meaningfully to their overall growth. Five years in, their investable assets have grown from $1.1 million to $2.5 million. Beyond that, Rob and Christie have referred five family members to Five Pine, a reflection of the trust that developed alongside their plan. In Christie's own words: "Ben and Jeremy are honest, approachable, and very professional. They take great pride in getting to know clients and listening to each individual's goals. Honestly, they are the best fiduciaries I have ever worked with, by far." Your Decumulation Strategy Starts Before You Retire Rob's story is more common than most people realize. Disciplined savers often arrive at retirement without a spending plan, a tax strategy, or a portfolio suited to this new phase of life. If you're within five to ten years of retirement (or already there), it's worth asking whether your current advisor is doing comprehensive planning, including tax planning for retirement, or simply managing your investments. Over the course of a long retirement, that distinction can determine whether or not you’re equipped to tackle retirement with confidence. We'd love to help you find your number. Email us at info@fivepinewealth.com or call 877.333.1015. Let's talk.* Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) Q: When should I start building a decumulation strategy? A: Ideally, five to ten years before you plan to retire. That window gives you time to gradually reposition your portfolio, identify potential tax issues before they become expensive, and stress-test your spending assumptions while you still have income coming in. Q: What role does Social Security timing play in a decumulation plan? A: Claiming Social Security early locks in a permanently reduced benefit, while waiting until 70 can increase your monthly payout substantially. The right timing depends on your health, other income sources, and whether a spouse will eventually depend on your benefit as a survivor. Coordinating with your Roth conversion strategy is also worthwhile, since both affect your taxable income. Q: What happens to my decumulation plan if the market drops early in retirement? A: This is often called the sequence of returns risk. A significant market decline in the first few years of retirement can have a lasting impact on a portfolio, because you're withdrawing funds at lower values. A well-designed decumulation strategy accounts for this by maintaining a portion of the portfolio in less volatile assets, so you're not forced to sell equities at a discount to cover living expenses during a downturn. *Names have been changed to protect client privacy*