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Enjoying Your Golden Years: How to Prepare Emotionally for Retirement

admin • June 13, 2023

Retirement has probably been on your mind since your very first paycheck (or at least it should have been). And for a good reason—a successful and enjoyable retirement requires a substantial amount of wealth and careful planning. 

Preparing for retirement from an emotional perspective, however, doesn’t get as much time and thought. Similar to entering the workforce, getting married, or having a child, retirement is a major life event and the start of a new life chapter. It’s marked by a change in identity, new emotions, different routines, and shifts in responsibilities and relationships. 

As you near retirement, it’s wise to be meticulous about your finances and ensure you’re on track to live the retirement life you want, but try not to neglect the emotional preparations as well. Retirement is too special to feel anything but satisfied and fulfilled. 

Emotional Stages of Retirement

The psychology of retirement has been studied extensively. There are believed to be typical emotional stages of retirement that individuals experience. 

Some of these stages include: 

  • Preparation . This stage involves anticipating your upcoming retirement, perhaps filled with thoughts of excitement. You’re ready to be relieved of your career responsibilities and looking forward to the freedom that comes with retirement. 

 

  • Honeymoon Period. This stage is pretty self-explanatory—you’ve officially left the workforce and are enjoying your freedom! Perhaps you’re vacationing, catching up with friends, or dusting off old hobbies. You’re slowly and happily working through all the things on the “retirement bucket list” you made during your final working years. 


  • The Let-Down. What goes up…. must come down . Unfortunately, the honeymoon phase doesn’t last until your final breath. After a while, you start to settle into the day-to-day of retirement life, which can bring a whole new host of emotions such as boredom, loss of identity, or purposelessness. 


  • Reshuffling. This phase involves pursuing new interests and hobbies, ones that you may not have originally planned. These new activities are often more sustainable than the big trips and exciting things you accomplished at the very beginning of your retirement. This stage is filled with tremendous personal growth and opportunities, ideally leading to contentment. 


  • Moving forward. As you settle into your new stage of life, you can slowly feel more confident about your new retirement identity and move forward.

 

These are general emotional stages of retirement that many people have experienced. Depending on your social support, preparation, health, and other factors, you may or may not experience these stages (or at least not in this order). 

The best way to prepare for retirement is to carefully consider what you want out of your golden years. 

How to Prepare Emotionally for Retirement

Preparing emotionally for retirement takes time, reflection, and effort. Everyone’s retirement experience will look and feel different—embrace your unique opportunities and desires. 

Starting your preparations early will help you navigate the many emotions you’ll likely face in retirement. In your retirement preparation stage, consider the following: 

  1. Envision your retirement day-to-day. 
  2. Brainstorm new activities and hobbies.
  3. Invest in relationships. 
  4. Discover your identity apart from your job.

1. Envision your retirement day-to-day

Your everyday routine ( after your honeymoon period filled with particularly high levels of excitement and new experiences) should be carefully envisioned. 

What do you want your day to look like? Do you want structure and routine? Do you have an exercise program you’d like to follow? Will you meal plan and prep or just go with the flow? If applicable, how will your partner fit into your schedule? 

The beauty of retirement is that you can create and follow your own schedule. Perhaps you’ll still want to wake up early and be productive or maybe you’d prefer starting your day later. There’s no right or wrong routine, it’s completely customized to your preferences! 

You’ll also want to consider where you’ll want to live, which can bring a whole new host of emotions and changes. Do you want to downsize to a condo or townhome? Continue living in the home you raised your family in? Retire to the mountains or beach? You’ll need to consider how your retirement location will impact your family relationships, too. 

2. Brainstorm new activities and hobbies

In your retirement, you’ll want to strike a balance between relaxing and also being productive. Many people don’t do well going from full-time work to absolutely nothing—our human nature inclines us to be productive and purposeful. 

Think about stimulating activities both for your mind and body. Your mind can be stimulated through reading, taking a class, volunteering, teaching others, playing games, writing, and engaging in rich conversations. You can take care of your body by joining a local gym or community center and taking a group class, walking with friends, gardening, and dancing.

There are a plethora of options for retirees to keep their minds sharp and their bodies active—explore what interests you most!

3. Invest in relationships

Before you officially retire, take stock of your relationships and prioritize whom you’d like to spend energy and time on. Maybe it’s your partner, close friends, children, grandchildren, or neighbors. 

If your current relationships are mostly tied to your current position, you’ll especially want to look outside of your work circle for close friends you can spend time with during retirement. 

As you invest in relationships, it’s important to remember to be present and curious about the lives of others. Your life experiences and lessons can tremendously impact the next generation—think about who you want to share your wisdom and advice with. 

4. Discover your identity apart from your job

When you spend the majority of your time in a role, it’s understandable that your identity feels intertwined with your job title. As you emotionally prepare for retirement, think about who you are (and who you want to be) outside of your career. 

Local citizen, community activist, mentor, grandparent, church member, spouse, role model, gardener, coach, philanthropist…the possibilities are endless! Consider how you want to be described and characterized in your golden years. 

Prepare Financially (And Emotionally) For Retirement with Five Pine Wealth

A purposeful life after retirement is entirely possible. One of the best ways to prepare emotionally for retirement is to first be financially ready. 

Having your nest egg in order can significantly reduce stress and anxiety as you enter your retirement period. It frees you up to enjoy your life, discover new hobbies, engage in different opportunities, travel, and spend quality time with your loved ones.  

To see how we can help you prepare for retirement, check out our website or give us a call at 877.333.1015. We can’t wait to connect with you!

40 and Catching Up: Why This Decade Could Be Your Best for Building Wealth

July 18, 2025
Your 40s arrive with a unique mix of clarity and urgency. You've likely figured out what you want from life, but suddenly retirement no longer feels like a distant concept. If you're looking at your financial situation and feeling behind, you're not alone. Many people in their 40s experience this same wake-up call. The good news is that this decade offers some of the most powerful opportunities to accelerate your wealth-building journey. Think of your 40s as your financial prime time. You're earning more than you ever have, you understand money better than in your 20s and 30s, and you still have 20-25 years to let compound growth work its magic. Instead of dwelling on what you should have done differently, let's focus on what you can do right now to make this decade count. The Reality Check: Where You Stand vs. Where You Want to Be Before exploring strategies, let's acknowledge the elephant in the room. Many financial experts recommend saving three times your annual salary by age 40. If you're reading this and thinking, "I'm nowhere near that," take a deep breath. Life happens. Maybe you started your career later, switched fields, dealt with medical expenses, helped family members, or simply prioritized other goals during your 30s. The key is to start from where you are today, not where you think you should be. Your 40s bring unique advantages: higher earning potential, greater financial discipline, and often more stable life circumstances. Many successful investors didn't hit their stride until their 40s or later. You're not behind; you're just getting started on a more intentional path. Retirement Savings Strategies That Work in Your 40s Your retirement savings strategy in your 40s should differ from someone in their 20s or 30s. You have less time but more resources, which means you need to be both aggressive and smart about your approach. First, maximize your employer's 401(k) match if you haven't already. This is free money, and missing out on it is like leaving cash on the table. Additionally, consider increasing your contribution rate by 1-2% each year, or whenever you receive a raise. This gradual approach makes the adjustment less painful while significantly boosting your long-term savings. Roth conversions become particularly powerful in your 40s. If you expect to be in a higher tax bracket in retirement or if you want to leave tax-free money to heirs, converting some traditional IRA or 401(k) funds to Roth accounts can be a smart move. The key is to do this strategically, perhaps in years when your income is temporarily lower or when you can manage the tax impact. Don't overlook the power of diversification beyond your 401(k). A taxable investment account gives you flexibility and access to your money before age 59½ without penalties. This can be crucial for achieving early retirement goals or covering major expenses that may arise before the traditional retirement age. Catch-Up Retirement Contributions: Start the Habit Now Once you reach 50, you can make catch-up contributions to your retirement accounts, which significantly increases your savings potential. For 2025, this means an additional $7,500 in 401(k) contributions (bringing your total to $31,000). However, you don't have to wait until 50 to think like someone making catch-up contributions. Start now by treating your savings rate as if you're already eligible for these higher limits. If you can save an extra $600 per month ($7,200 annually) starting at 45, you'll have built the habit by the time you're actually eligible for catch-up contributions. Retirement Milestones by Age 40: A New Perspective Traditional retirement milestones can be discouraging if you're starting later or if life hasn’t gone as planned. Instead of focusing on arbitrary multiples of your salary, consider these more practical benchmarks for your 40s: The Emergency Fund Foundation : Before aggressively pursuing retirement savings, ensure you have a solid emergency fund in place. This prevents you from having to tap retirement accounts during tough times. Aim for 3-6 months of expenses, adjusted for your specific situation. The Debt Freedom Focus : High-interest debt can quickly derail retirement plans. If you're carrying credit card debt or other high-interest obligations, addressing these might be more valuable than maximizing retirement contributions beyond your employer match. The Income Replacement Goal : Rather than focusing on net worth multiples, think about what percentage of your current income you're on track to replace in retirement. A good target is 70-80% of your pre-retirement income, but this depends on your lifestyle and retirement plans. The Flexibility Buffer : Your 40s are a great time to build financial flexibility. This means having investments outside of retirement accounts that you can access without penalties, creating multiple income streams, and maintaining career skills that keep you marketable. Insurance: Life and disability insurance coverage should reflect your current income and family needs. Estate Planning : A basic will, power of attorney, and healthcare directive should be in place. Making Your Peak Earning Years Count Your 40s often represent your peak earning years, and how you manage this increased income will significantly impact your financial future. The temptation to inflate your lifestyle with every raise is real, but this decade calls for more strategic thinking. Consider implementing a "pay yourself first" approach where you immediately redirect any income increases to savings and investments. If you get a $5,000 raise, automatically increase your 401(k) contribution by $3,000 and your taxable investment account by $2,000. You'll barely notice the difference in your take-home pay, but you will thank yourself in the future. This is also the time to think seriously about additional income streams. Whether it's consulting in your field, starting a side business, or investing in rental real estate, diversifying your income sources provides security and potential for acceleration. Building Wealth Beyond Retirement Accounts While retirement accounts are crucial, they shouldn't be your only wealth-building tool. Your 40s are an excellent time to diversify your investment approach and build wealth that's accessible before traditional retirement age. Consider opening a taxable investment account if you haven't already done so. This provides flexibility and liquidity while still offering growth potential. Focus on tax-efficient investments, such as index funds, and consider holding dividend-paying stocks or REITs for their income potential. Real estate can be particularly powerful in your 40s. Whether it's paying off your primary residence early, investing in rental properties, or exploring REITs, real estate adds diversification and potential inflation protection to your portfolio. Don’t Forget the “You” Factor We’d be remiss not to mention this: life in your 40s is busy. You might be managing aging parents, teenagers, or a toddler (or all three). You may be helping your partner through a career change or navigating one yourself. It’s a lot. Which is precisely why intentional financial planning matters now more than ever. You don’t need to do it perfectly. You just need a plan that’s rooted in your real life — your values, your vision, and your goals. A good financial advisor can help you prioritize, simplify, and clarify the next best steps, even if you feel like you’ve fallen behind. Ready to Create Your Personal Financial Strategy? Feeling overwhelmed by all the options and strategies available? You don't have to navigate this journey alone. At Five Pine Wealth Management , we specialize in helping individuals and families in their 40s and beyond create comprehensive financial plans that align with their goals and circumstances. Whether you're looking to maximize your retirement savings, explore catch-up strategies, or build a diversified investment portfolio, our team can help you develop a personalized approach tailored to your situation. We work with clients at various stages of their financial journey, from those just getting serious about retirement planning to those with substantial assets seeking to optimize their strategies. Don't let another year pass wondering if you're on the right track. Schedule a conversation with our team to discuss your financial goals and explore how we can help you make the most of your financial prime time.

The Best Long-Term Investment Strategy? Stay Invested, Stay Calm

June 20, 2025
When markets are calm, investing can feel easy. You contribute regularly, watch your portfolio grow, and start picturing that future vacation home or early retirement. But when markets get volatile, everything changes. Suddenly, headlines are full of dire warnings. Account balances fluctuate. And the urge to do something can feel overwhelming. At Five Pine Wealth Management , we understand how emotional investing can become during periods of market uncertainty. One of the most important things we do as fiduciary financial planners is to help our clients stay grounded when the market gets choppy. Let’s walk you through how we approach investment risk management and why having a clear, disciplined philosophy matters most when volatility strikes. Our Philosophy: Think Long-Term, Not Next Week When markets are moving fast, it is easy to think that the “best long-term investment strategy” must involve taking action to avoid losses or chase gains. The reality is usually the opposite. Reacting to market noise can often do more harm than good. In fact, one of the greatest risks to long-term returns is making emotional decisions in response to short-term events. We coach our clients to stay focused on their long-term financial plans and goals. Volatility is a feature of markets, not a flaw. By designing portfolios with realistic expectations for ups and downs, we help clients stay invested through all market environments. Here is what this looks like in practice: We use broadly diversified portfolios built around low-cost ETFs. We focus on asset allocation aligned with your time horizon, goals, and risk tolerance. We do not chase trends or attempt to time the market. We regularly review and rebalance portfolios based on your financial plan, not headlines. In short, your portfolio is designed to ride out volatility, not avoid it entirely. Fiduciary Financial Planning: Advice in Your Best Interest There is a great deal of noise in the financial world, particularly during turbulent market conditions. One of the most significant ways we help cut through it is by being fiduciary financial planners. That means we are legally and ethically obligated to act in your best interest at all times. We are also fee-only advisors. We do not receive commissions for recommending one investment over another. Our primary agenda is to help you reach your goals. During market volatility, this matters more than ever. Too many investors fall prey to sales pitches disguised as “solutions” to market risk. We focus on education and long-term planning rather than quick fixes. Being a fiduciary allows us to focus on what serves you best: Keeping you aligned with your personal goals and values Helping you tune out market noise and media hype Offering sound, research-backed guidance without conflicts of interest Your Coach Through Emotional Market Cycles One of our most important roles as financial planners is helping clients manage the psychological side of investing. It is one thing to know, intellectually, that markets will recover over time. It is another thing to watch your portfolio drop 15% and not feel anxious. Market downturns create powerful emotions. Fear. Doubt. Sometimes, even panic. As humans, our instinct is to take action to relieve those feelings, even when the logical course is to stay invested. That is where we come in. We help coach clients through these moments so they can avoid costly mistakes like: Selling during a downturn and locking in losses Chasing the next hot trend during a rebound Over-concentration in “safe” assets out of fear We remind clients that volatility is a normal part of the market. Markets have experienced recessions, wars, pandemics, and political turmoil before. They will again. Over time, markets have historically rewarded patient investors who stayed the course. When you work with us, you gain a trusted partner who is here to talk through your concerns, offer perspective, and help you make decisions that serve your long-term goals. Why Staying the Course Actually Works It may seem counterintuitive, but reducing activity during market volatility often yields better outcomes. Consider this: From 1999 through 2018, if an investor missed just the 10 best days in the S&P 500, their overall return would have been cut nearly in half . Many of the best market days happen very close to the worst ones. Trying to time the market is a challenging task, even for seasoned professionals. By maintaining a disciplined investment approach and staying fully invested, you ensure that you are there for both the recoveries and the long-term growth that markets provide. Our role is to help you build a portfolio designed for precisely this kind of staying power. We structure your investment mix to help you weather market cycles without having to guess what will happen next. Educating Clients About Normal Market Cycles Another key aspect of fiduciary financial planning is helping clients understand what is “normal” in the market. Volatility is not a sign that something is broken. It is a natural part of how markets function. In fact, without volatility, markets would not offer the returns that make long-term investing so powerful. We work with clients to help them see: Why some years will be down, but others will be very strong Why trying to avoid all losses is neither realistic nor necessary How staying invested through cycles often leads to far better outcomes than jumping in and out of the market Perspective is everything . The more you understand market behavior, the less likely you are to make emotional decisions during downturns. Different Stages, Same Principles Our approach also adapts to the varying needs of clients at different stages of their financial journey. For clients in their 40s to 60s: We may focus on prudently preserving and growing wealth. We help manage sequence-of-returns risk as you approach retirement. We may emphasize income planning and portfolio sustainability. We ensure that your investment mix aligns with your evolving goals and risk tolerance. For clients in their 30s: We provide education about typical market cycles (especially if this is their first experience with volatility). We coach clients to take advantage of their longer time horizons. We help younger investors see downturns as buying opportunities, not threats. In all cases, we are committed to helping clients invest with confidence, regardless of the headlines. Ready to Build a More Resilient Investment Strategy? Market volatility will always be part of investing, but it doesn't have to derail your financial goals. As your trusted financial advisor Coeur d'Alene team, we're here to help you navigate market uncertainty with confidence through our comprehensive financial planning approach. Contact Five Pine Wealth Management today to discuss how our investment philosophy and comprehensive financial planning approach can help you navigate market uncertainty with confidence. To see how we can help you support your financial goals, send us an email or call us at 877.333.1015.  Whether you're looking to preserve the wealth you've already accumulated or build a foundation for long-term growth, our team has the experience and commitment to help you stay focused on what matters most: achieving your financial goals.