From Full House to Financial Freedom: Smart Money Moves for Empty Nesters
The day your last child leaves home hits differently. It’s not just about the quiet hallways or fewer groceries in the cart. It’s the moment you realize that the life you’ve known for 20+ years is evolving into something new. For many, that change is deeply emotional. But it’s also a golden opportunity.
At Five Pine Wealth Management, we work with parents who are entering this new season of life. Maybe you’re celebrating. Perhaps you’re feeling uncertain. Likely, you’re feeling a mix of both. This new chapter comes with financial freedom and decisions to match wherever you land.
Let’s explore the smart financial moves you can make as empty nesters.
Empty Nesters: A New Financial Season
Meet Rob and Dana.
After 25 years of raising three kids, their youngest finally left for college last fall. Their house, once bustling with backpacks, soccer cleats, and half-eaten cereal bowls, suddenly felt oversized and eerily quiet.
They weren’t used to grocery bills being cut in half or weekends without games and activities. But what really surprised them? Just how much less money was going out each month.
They came to us with a familiar feeling: a mix of excitement and uncertainty. "We think we're in a good place," Dana said. "But are we doing what we should be doing?"
This is where a financial check-in becomes vital. With fewer day-to-day expenses and more flexibility, this is a time to refocus your finances.
Here’s where to focus:
- Revisit your monthly budget. Your spending needs have probably changed. Without dependents at home, you may find new flexibility. Redirect those dollars toward long-term goals.
- Refresh your financial goals. That dream trip to Italy or the kitchen renovation you’ve put off? Let’s pencil it in, but also ensure your retirement accounts are getting the love they need.
- Update your estate plan. Now that the kids are young adults, your wills, healthcare directives, and beneficiaries may need adjusting.
Freedom looks different for everyone, but for many, it starts with clarity.
Pre-Retirement Planning: Your Next Big Financial Milestone
For most empty nesters, retirement is no longer a distant concept—it’s getting real. Pre-retirement planning becomes a critical focus, especially in your late 40s to mid-60s. This is often the highest-earning period of your life and the sweet spot for pre-retirement planning.
Here’s what we help our clients prioritize:
- Maximizing retirement contributions: As an empty nester, your cash flow could increase by 12% or more. Now’s the time to supercharge your 401(k), IRA, or other investment accounts with that extra cash. If you’re 50 or older, take advantage of catch-up contributions.
- Evaluating your risk exposure: Is your portfolio still aligned with your risk tolerance and timeline?
- Consider your tax strategy: With fewer deductions (like kids at home) and possibly a high-earning year, you may want to explore Roth conversions, charitable giving, or other tax-aware strategies.
- Running retirement projections: We help clients answer big-picture questions like: When can I retire? Will I have enough? What lifestyle can I realistically support? These aren’t always easy questions, but they’re essential.
- Planning for healthcare: Don’t wait until 65 to think about Medicare. Explore long-term care insurance and out-of-pocket expectations now.
Rob and Dana sat down with us to run a retirement analysis. With only 8 years until Rob planned to retire, we helped them rebalance their portfolio to reduce risk, evaluate their pension and Social Security options, and make a plan to pay off their mortgage early. The result? They now have a clear retirement date and peace of mind.
Should I Downsize My Home?
One of the most common questions we get from empty nesters is, “Should I downsize my home?”
It’s not just a financial question. It’s an emotional one, too.
That house holds birthday parties, graduation photos on the stairs, and a dent in the drywall from a wild game of indoor tag. But it may also hold higher property taxes, more space than you use, and maintenance costs that don’t serve your current lifestyle.
When deciding whether to downsize, we walk clients through:
- Total cost of ownership: What are you paying for the space?
- Emotional readiness: Are you ready to let go of the home?
- What would moving free up?: Cash for retirement? A move to your dream location?
- Family needs: Will your kids (or grandkids) be visiting regularly? Would a smaller home still support that?
Downsizing doesn’t always mean moving into a tiny condo. Sometimes it means relocating to a one-level home with less yard or trading square footage for a better lifestyle. For Rob and Dana, downsizing meant moving to a townhome closer to their daughter and walkable to their favorite coffee shop, all while cutting their housing costs by nearly 35%.
Give Yourself Permission to Dream Again
One of our favorite things about working with empty nesters is helping them rediscover what they want.
For years, life revolved around the kids. College tours. Dance recitals. Saturday mornings spent on the soccer sidelines. You were investing in their future.
Now, it’s time to invest in yours.
That might mean:
- Launching the business you put on hold
- Traveling during off-peak seasons (because you can!)
- Picking up a new hobby or volunteering more
- Creating a legacy through charitable giving or a family foundation
Whatever it is, we want to help you align your money with your vision.
Ready to Rethink the Next Chapter?
This stage of life is full of opportunities, but it can also raise big questions. The good news is you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.
Whether you're considering downsizing, exploring early retirement, or just want to know you’re on the right path, Five Pine Wealth Management is here to help you plan wisely, invest intentionally, and live fully.
Take advantage of this pivotal financial moment. Call (877.333.1015) or email us today to schedule your empty nester strategy session. The empty nest doesn't have to feel empty. It can be the launch pad for your next chapter of financial success.

